Our relationship counsellors find that one someone searches online for relationship counselling near me it is often because their relationship has become stale, which is one of the most common reasons that bring couples to therapy, particularly when they have been together for a number years. More often than not, one or both parties, have become disillusioned, complacent, and uncommunicative and are at a loss as to how to turn things around.
Despite living in the same house people often admit to living quite separate lives quite, not due to any major issues necessarily, but because the connection you once shared has been lost and you have grown apart.
Most couples claim to still love each other (often due to the history they share) but also admit to not to particularly ‘liking’ or respecting each other anymore. It seems that the characteristics, traits, or habits their partner has (which once they might have found endearing) can end up being a bone of contention, causing frustration and resentment to the other person.
Marriage counselling or couple therapy explores where each person feels things started to change and why from their perspective and how they feel about it. Couple counselling also finds out how each person perceives the others communication style/behaviour and actions and examines the meaning the other person places on them. An alternative perspective from a third party enables a new insight and understanding to allow you to move your relationship forward in a positive way.
It’s not about attributing blame to either one of you, it’s about gaining understanding. More often than not, both parties will unintentionally played a role in the relationship becoming stale.
Problems we can help you with
Dealing with the Death of a Partner
The Impact of Pornography
Jealousy and Suspicion
Relationship Break Up’s or Divorce
Pre-Marital/Pre-Living Together Counselling
Infidelity or Affairs
Why use us?
Successfully enabled hundreds of couples to relate more effectively and achieve their goals
Skilled in helping couples open up and communicate effectively
97% of customers rebook after their first session.
BSC (hons) Psychology
(accredited by the British Psychological Society)
BACP - British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy
We will help you understand what is going on in your relationship, no matter what has happened or what is going on.
Feel relaxed in quiet, comfortable environment
Convenient & flexible appointments to suit you.
Ideally located across the whole of kent.
We have multiple marriage counselling practices Kent conveniently located to make our relationship counselling services accessible throughout the county.
Having Sian help us talk through our problems helped us both see each others point of view and see things more clearly. Our marriage is much stronger now that it has been for years – thank you so much.
Byron & Claire
We knew we needed to separate but wanted to do so amicably for the sake of our two children. Sian made this possible by offering us the support through a very difficult time.
Thank you Sian for putting our marriage back on track!
Mr & Mrs Donahue
When my wife suggested that we should see a relationship counsellor but I thought it was a stupid idea and was very sceptical and cynical!. However, Sian made us both feel very relaxed from the outset and she never took sides in any of our conversations. Unfortunately we were not able to save our relationship but Sian helped us through the difficult process and made the separation so such much easier. I would recommend her to anyone who is having problems
Although my partner was reluctant to go for counselling Alison put us both at ease straight away. I was surprised how he opened up and I was able to see things from his perspective for the first time. I know that he understands me more now and with Alison help we are closer than ever.
Hayley and John
I didn’t think there was any hope for our relationship as all we did was argue and shout at each other. We went to see Sian at Relationship Counselling Kent and she was so patient and understanding and always saw things from both points of view. We are now at a stage where we can at least communicate without getting angry. We are still working on our relationship but now feel at least there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Paul & Sue
We are an experienced team of professional relationship counsellors located throughout Kent. Relationship Counselling Kent will help you gain understanding of your partner’s perspective. This will enable you both to move forward in the direction you choose.