Why It’s Good To Talk!

Our couple counsellors at Relationship counselling Bexley often say – that they cannot emphasis enough, the importance of couples taking the time to ‘properly talk’. Relationship counselling Bexley will help you both realise how sometimes we underestimate the positive impact that something as simple as talking (and listening) can have on our relationship. Even after …

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Take Control Of You In Your Relationship

At couple counselling Bromley, we often see couples who complain about how their partner treats them. They believe that they want to be close, and it’s their partner that is stopping that, by being ‘thoughtless’ ‘critical’ ‘irresponsible’ or ‘complacent’ which they believe forces them to take control, demand attention or stand up for themselves. They …

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Romantic Jealousy & Suspicion

No one enjoys feeling jealous or insecure, even though jealousy is an emotion that almost all of us will experience at one point or another. The problem with jealousy isn’t that it comes up from time to time, it’s when we don’t get hold of it.  It can be frightening to experience what happens when we allow our jealousy to overpower us or to shape the way we feel about ourselves and the world around us.

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Be Honest With Your Partner And Be Happy!

Why Effective Communication Makes For  Happier Relationships The most common problem couples face is simply down to a lack of communication along with an avoidance of being honest. Many people report that they choose not to say what is bothering them within their relationship, either through a fear of conflict or a concern about upsetting the other person.

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What Counts As Cheating On Your Partner?

A question I am often asked is – “What Counts as Cheating in a Relationship?” My summary reply is – “When you do, say or write something that you wouldn’t want your partner to see, hear or read then you know you are being unfaithful” Cheating or unfaithfulness is difficult to define because people often differ in what they deem appropriate contact or interaction for a partner to have with someone else.

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Where Our Relationship Patterns Come From

In an ideal world, we would all be born with perfectly attuned parents who love us and are there for our every need but who also give us just the right amount of space and independence to flourish and fully develop.  All our parents would provide a solid base from which we could venture out as separate individuals because we would feel safe and secure.

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